Join us for The Thriving Experience™ on March 5-7!


I feel like I've made a huge life change. After this weekend I feel very empowered.

I used to weigh myself compulsively, several times a day. Following The Thriving Experience weekend, I broke up with the scale.

We'll come together as a community of revolutionary women leaders who have heard the calling to fully embody our power--the power of our gifts, financial, sexual, personal--so we can create (and fully enjoy!) a life designed by our personal and collective desires.

Under patriarchy, a woman's power has always been a punishable offense.

We have deep wounds to heal on our journey of reclaiming, owning, and embodying it.

Here's what you can expect from participating in the Experience:

  • We'll have deep, awakening, catalytic conversations that will shatter imprisoning patriarchal paradigms and help you begin drawing the blueprint of a life designed by your desires.
  • We'll come out of the silos of shame created by deep-seated subconscious programming that something's wrong with us. 
  • You'll see yourself and other women with new eyes--in your and their authentic and unconditional beauty, power, and worth, as we shine the light on and shatter patriarchal lies!
  • You'll create precious connections with your sisters on this journey.
  • You'll learn the practices you can use right now to shift from survival to thriving.

The cost to attend is $0

This is the most catalytic and potent time for doing this work.

I hear from people left and right that they're going on medication for anxiety, or they're self-medicating with food, weed, or wine more. So much collective and intergenerational trauma is triggered, and they're doing their best, using what they know to get through the day.

There's a better way. Self-medicating without healing would be missing a huge transformation opportunity that's being catalyzed right now.

The trauma material that's up right now collectively and personally, urges us to uncover and dive into deeper layers of healing.

What we used to tolerate collectively and personally has become intolerable, creating a catalytic opportunity we cannot afford to miss.

Our lives and our world will be shaped by whether we take this opportunity to heal the traumas of patriarchy, racism, and other generational, collective, and personal traumas that have been keeping us and the world in the state of survival for too long.

Knowing the profound shifts that trauma healing can create in just one generation gives me hope. Considering the possibility that this opportunity can be missed makes me shudder...

How much LOUDER does the invitation to heal ourselves and the world have to get??

We cannot afford to live in survival anymore.

The price is too high. The key feature of living in survival is living in a constant state of Fight, Flight or Freeze.

It costs lives. Lives lost to the reactivity the state of survival creates--in a lethal combination with racism has been responsible for Black lives lost to police brutality, lives cut short by chronic stress and associated illness, and lives not fully lived.


In my book, I talk about healing our way from "how much can I bear?" to "how good can it get?"

When a woman makes this dramatic shift, she changes not only her life and destiny, she changes the world. She creates a new precedent of what's possible, the new normal, and she brings everyone with her.

The movement of healing generational, collective and personal trauma is about how good can it get? -- for everyone. Profound changes we need to see in the world are made possible by profound personal changes that this healing unlocks.

Healing trauma restores our authentic power--to create the life and the world we desire, in conscious connection and collaboration with one another and the planet that's only possible when we're in a state of Thriving, not surviving.

We're here to heal for this and future generations and to honor and bring healing to the generations before us.

Will you join us in creating a Thriving world through your healing?

The Thriving Experience™ attendees have shared with us that the retreat helped them to:

  • Shift from anxiety and tension into feeling happy and light.
  • Find deeper intimacy with their partners.
  • Be able to show up for challenging conversations around anti-racism in ways they couldn't before.
  • Connect with their authentic desires.
  • Break up with the scale.
  • Uncover greater clarity about their unique gifts and how to share them with the world.

About Dr. Valerie

Dr. Valerie Rein has discovered Patriarchy Stress Disorder (PSD) and created the only science-backed system for helping women achieve their ultimate success, happiness, and fulfillment by healing the generational trauma of oppression. She holds an EdM in Psychological Counseling from Columbia University and a PhD in Psychology from the Institute of Transpersonal Psychology.

Her bestselling book, “Patriarchy Stress Disorder: The Invisible Inner Barrier to Women’s Happiness and Fulfillment” and her cutting-edge programs have helped thousands of women shift from survival to thriving and master the game of "How good can it get?" in their work and personal lives. Dr. Valerie is a sought-after speaker and trainer at conferences and companies committed to setting new standards of excellence in their industry in diversity, equity, and inclusion, employee satisfaction, their physical and mental health, and creativity and innovation.

It was an extraordinary experience, well designed, full of details, the information, the activities, the participants, everything was powerful and transformative.

Instead of a little transformative experience, I got a big one!! I felt relaxed on Sunday night for the first time ever, body AND mind!

To create a sacred container for the Experience and ensure that we all have the most benefit from our time together, here are the requirements for attendance:

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The cost to attend is $0. Join Us.

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